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From the MICROCOSM of a WORKSHOP to the MACROCOSM of your LIFE
Being stuck in certain relational dynamics, patterns and challenges can be quite frustrating and really hard to get out of on your own....
Ida Helmers
9 mars 20232 min läsning
SLOW DOWN TO SHOW UP
I am still landing after a beautiful weekend at a festival, where I had the pleasure of guiding an embodiment with all participants...
Ida Helmers
7 mars 20233 min läsning
EVOLUTIONARY CONFLICTS
Needing to be in the same reality is what prevents us from being in the same reality. Needing to have the same point of view is what...
Ida Helmers
17 feb. 20232 min läsning
What I am learning as I am going through the process of uncoupling / break up repair
It is never too late to repair. Even if we cannot go back in time we can still give each other the healing experience now of...
Ida Helmers
15 feb. 20231 min läsning
What happens in a relational laboratory?
We are excited to announce...the relational laboratory tour! As per request the laboratory where you get to shift your patterns into new...
Ida Helmers
26 jan. 20232 min läsning
What is in the way is the way.
What is in the way is the way. When you take a step towards what you want, what you don’t want will meet you there. When you call in what...
Ida Helmers
17 jan. 20231 min läsning


What is an evolutionary relationship?
An evolutionary relationship is part of a new paradigm of relating that sees love as a guide rather than a goal, leading us deeper into...
Ida Helmers
15 jan. 20231 min läsning


Intentional movement
What was a key practice that helped you through the last year, someone asked me recently. My answer? Intentional movement. To daily let...
Ida Helmers
4 jan. 20231 min läsning
Boundary, set, go?
A common misconception when it comes to boundary work is that we are meant to find our boundaries once and then know for sure what they...
Ida Helmers
9 nov. 20222 min läsning


You are the safe space
The expression ”holding a safe space” is being used a lot these days in workshop descriptions, probably with the best intentions of...
Ida Helmers
25 okt. 20222 min läsning
PRACTICAL NERVOUS SYSTEM AWARENESS
Knowing how the nervous system works and being trauma informed is one thing in theory. Actually living accordingly is when it starts to...
Ida Helmers
7 sep. 20222 min läsning
WHY GO TO A WORKSHOP ABOUT BOUNDARIES?
Most of us struggle with boundaries, sensing and expressing our needs in relation to others is often times easier said than done. We...
Ida Helmers
20 aug. 20222 min läsning


I LONG TO MEET YOU
I wrote a poem about this longing a while back that sparked a lot of resonance and curiosity from some of you, so I thought I would share...
Ida Helmers
8 aug. 20223 min läsning
It’s time for a new relational culture.
Right now a very painful and dysfunctional relationship dynamic is being played out on live TV for the world to see. As you watch the...
Ida Helmers
21 maj 20222 min läsning
HAPPILY EVER AFTER?
Although many of us long for that perfect relationship with no conflicts, the freedom to be ourselves fully while feeling committed and...
Ida Helmers
25 apr. 20222 min läsning
HELPING YOUR CHILD EXPRESS ANGER
- Mom! There’s anger that wants to come out... I think I need to wrestle! - Sure, lets wrestle. - You know, it’s funny mom, even if I’m...
Ida Helmers
15 apr. 20223 min läsning
WHEN MY CHILD BECOMES MY ENEMY
When my child is expressing anger towards me and I don’t have the capacity to hold them in it, my nervous system will perceive them as a...
Ida Helmers
14 apr. 20223 min läsning
AUTHENTICITY vs. BELONGING
To be yourself or to fit in, that is the question. Be yourself off course, you might think - unfortunately it’s not always that easy and...
Ida Helmers
8 apr. 20222 min läsning
FROM POWERLESS TO EMPOWERED PARENT
I remember studying children’s development and attachment trauma when my daughter was one year old, feeling so bad about everything I...
Ida Helmers
6 apr. 20222 min läsning


Relearning relationship
Are you aware of your core wound? That experience you made in a relationship early on in life, a relational trauma that still impacts you...
Ida Helmers
15 mars 20223 min läsning
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